Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people. Pardon my french but today we are going to talk about bullshit and jealousy. First of all let's be honest to ourselves. How do you feel when you meet a person with big dreams and/or accomplishments. Are you happy for them or are you jealous? Do you tell your friends that you met this amazing person or do you tell them something bad instead? Unfortunately in this world there are some people that live their lives never fulfilled, never happy, never accomplished. Their biggest joy is to talk other people down. These are not the people that will change the world, These are the small minded people. To be honest, sometimes I get sad when I hear that someone say bad things about me but after a little while I realize; "Should I really let this small minded person get to me?". As Eleanor Roosevelt said: Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people. So how do you do to be bulletproof to bullshit? How To Be Bulletproof To BullshitTip #1: Don't do it yourself
If you talk bad about other people and focus all your energy on the lives of others you can't expect that other people won't do the same. Always lead by example. Tip #2: Bullshit comes from the weak If you want to become a World Champion would you listen to a former World Champion or someone who never practiced your sport but believe they know it all? If you want to be a millionaire would you listen to a millionaire or someone who doesn't have a penny? The answer is simple, right? The same goes for the people who talks BS, they are not the people who will change this world. Realize that and instead focus your attention on the bright, humble and happy people of the world. Tip #3: Be certain Find you passion in life and practice your confidence. When you are certain about something you stop caring what other people think about you, instead you focus on progress and learning. There will always be "naysayers", don't let them get to you. Tip #4: Tell it to the right person Before I used to tell everything to everybody. I told jealous people about my big dreams and received the BS. Find people that are positive and tell them about your ideas, these are the people that will inspire and motivate you. They will lift you up instead of bringing you down. Tip #5: BS is a good sign Last but not least, remember that BS is a good sign. When other people uses their valuable time to talk about you, is usually means that you are on the right track to be doing great things. I remember the first years in the National Karate Team of Sweden. No one talked about me, because I wasn't a treat to them. After a few years I was up in the mix and was selected to the European and World Championships. All of a sudden the BS increased a lot. That was a good sign. If you want a little more help with your dreams, you should take my 100 % FREE 7-Day Goal Book Challenge. Check it out here
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PETER JUMRUKOVSKI is an author, keynote speaker and World medalist who practice what he preach. He consider himself a citizen of the world and is currently residing in Marina Del Rey, CA.
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